BOOKS OF THE MONTH Love Your Neighbor: How Psychology Can Enliven Faith and Transform Community Katherine Douglass and Brittany M. Tausen Eerdmans, 240 pages Published January 15, 2026 “Love God, Love Neighbor.” I once guided a church’s Family Committee in establishing its purpose. After rejecting more complicated language, we settled on these simple words: "Love God, Love Neighbor." Since then, I’ve noticed this statement on church signs and websites, reinforcing that many of us believe our job as Christians is to love God and neighbor — and the two are inseparable. But how? And who? Theologian Katherine Douglass and Social Psychologist Brittany Tausen draw on their respective fields to answer these questions in Love Your Neighbor. “In essence,” they write, “we hope to make it easier for you to do what you already want to do, to love better.” Love Your Neighbor brings together research, anecdotes, and scriptural wisdom to help readers create environments that foster the most meaningful connections with a broad range of neighbors. For example, when we understand that we are statistically more likely to build relationships with people nearby, we can adjust our routines to meet more people, perhaps by walking more or taking public transit. Similarly, when Tausen describes a study showing that people responded more positively to someone who regularly sat near them (even if they never interacted), we might be more intentional about seeking out less familiar neighbors. Each chapter opens with “Learning from Psychology” — insights based on reputable studies that debunk some of our assumptions about the actions that lead to true connection. “Thinking Theologically” sections engage biblical passages, and chapters conclude with practical suggestions in “Living Faithfully.” Love Your Neighbor isn’t a quick and easy read. These authors go in depth and, at times, describe studies and research in more detail than necessary. Yet they are thoughtful guides who forge a logical path through each concept, encouraging readers to try their ideas in their own neighborhoods. This provides a helpful guide for small groups or individuals seeking to make real change in their communities and in themselves. |
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